The car ride home from church is where most families actually talk about the sermon. Ask one real question.

The real conversation happens in the car, not in the building. Something about facing forward, side by side, with an engine running and no eye contact required, makes people say things they would never say across a table. Families know this instinctively and mostly waste it on logistics and complaints about parking. The twelve minutes are the most promising part of the morning and they usually go by unused.

Ask one genuine question on the way home this week. What stayed with you, or what did you disagree with. Then let the answer run without correcting it.