Some of the best changes in your life will feel like losses at first. Give them a year before you judge.

Early feelings about a change mostly report on what has gone, because that part is visible immediately. The gains arrive slowly and quietly: the people you have not met yet, the skill you are still bad at, the room that has not become yours. Judging in week two means judging with half the information.

If something changed recently and you hate it, set a rough date to revisit the question instead of arguing with it every night. Meanwhile, do the dull groundwork the new situation asks for. Decide later, when there is something real to decide with.