1,104 thoughts

Growth, Change & Reinvention

Outgrowing the habits and stories that once protected you, and what leaving them costs.

theme creativity 1,104

Twelve of the 1,104, with the question each one ends on. Open one to read the explanation that sits between them.

“The habit you inherit may contain a problem you never had.”

Which inherited habit solves a problem that was never yours?

“Know what you can do, then continue improving what you cannot.”

Which weakness of yours have you accepted too quickly?

“You don’t have to stay who you were to stay loyal to where you came from.”

What part of home do you carry while still changing?

“Stop waiting for the new you to feel natural. Natural is just repetition you forgot about.”

Which new routine still feels fake but is becoming yours?

“Improve one variable you personally control.”

Which single thing will you improve without help this month?

“Some lessons wait for age because experience provides the vocabulary.”

What can you finally put words to that once had none?

“You can appreciate who you were without inviting them to control who you become.”

What can you thank an earlier version of yourself for?

“The first three months of any instrument sound terrible. Your neighbors will live. Keep playing.”

What would you practice if you stopped worrying about being heard?

“The first time you supervise friends at work, some will test you. Fair beats cool.”

Would you rather your team find you fair or find you likeable?

“Becoming an adult includes seeing your parents as unfinished people too.”

What were your parents still working out while raising you?

“The person you imagine becoming has never had to experience your ordinary fatigue.”

What does your imagined future self never have to feel?

“The skills you retire from using for pay can still bring pleasure when nobody sets the deadline.”

Which of your work skills would you enjoy again without a deadline?