Saying “I was wrong about that” out loud is a skill. It gets easier with practice, and people respect it.
CREATIVITY
WHAT THIS MEANS
Admitting a mistake out loud is awkward mainly in anticipation. The sentence is short, the other person almost always relaxes, and the conversation can finally move on to what is actually true. What makes it a skill rather than a feeling is that repetition genuinely lowers the cost, so the fourth time is noticeably easier than the first. People trust somebody who can say it.
Find something small you were wrong about recently and say so plainly to the person involved. No long explanation, no justification attached. Notice that the conversation gets easier afterwards rather than harder.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
What belief have you quietly dropped without ever saying so?
MORE IN LEARNING & CURIOSITY
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- The coworker who’s been there twenty years knows things that aren’t in any training video. Ask them.
- Learning slang from a different region is a language lesson too. Language is always moving.
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