Talking to your grandparents is crossing a bridge a lot of people your age skip. The view is different over there.

CREATIVITY

WHAT THIS MEANS

Older relatives hold information you cannot get anywhere else: what your parents were like young, how the family behaves under pressure, what mattered in a world without any of your tools. Most people your age postpone that conversation until it is no longer available, not from coldness but because there is always something nearer to do. The crossing is easy, and so is leaving it uncrossed.

Call one of them this week, or an older neighbour if your grandparents are not around, and ask a real question rather than how they are. What was your first job will do. Then listen.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

What would you ask a grandparent if you had an hour?

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