Making a decision without polling five friends is a muscle. Start with small ones.

Asking around can be a way of not deciding. Five opinions feel like research, but what they often do is spread the responsibility thin enough that nobody, including you, has made a choice. Deciding on your own is uncomfortable because it is yours, and that discomfort is the thing you get better at. Like anything else, it builds from small reps.

Pick something low stakes this week and call it alone: what to order, which shift to take, what to wear. No group poll, no screenshots. The point is not the decision, it is getting used to the feeling of making one.