Being easy to get along with is great. Being easy to walk on is not the same thing.

Agreeableness and no resistance look alike from outside and feel completely different to live in. One is a choice about not making a fuss over small things, and the other is what happens when there is nothing you will hold, so people stop checking. The slide between them is gradual and mostly invisible until you are tired. Pleasant and firm sit together perfectly well.

Find one thing this week you let go that you would rather not have, and say something next time, plainly and without heat. Once is enough to shift the picture. Being easy about the small stuff works much better when there is a line somewhere.