Stare at one pimple long enough and it becomes the only thing you think people see. It isn’t.

REFLECTION

WHAT THIS MEANS

Attention magnifies whatever it lands on. Ten minutes in front of a mirror turns something nobody would notice into the centre of your face, because you have been studying it from six inches away while everybody else sees you from across a room. The feeling is real and the conclusion is wrong. Nobody else has your view.

Keep the mirror checks short and at arm’s length for a few days. When you feel certain people are looking, remember how much of that evidence came from standing very close to the glass.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which flaw do you believe others notice as much as you do?

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