Your middle school nickname was a guess somebody made about you. You’re allowed to grade it wrong.

The label you got at thirteen was a quick guess by people who barely knew you, usually built on one visible thing. Labels stick because repetition makes them feel like findings, and you can end up playing the part long after everyone who assigned it has moved on to other interests. It was a theory, and theories are allowed to be wrong.

Write down the name you got stuck with and ask what evidence it ever really had. If it does not describe who you are now, stop treating it as information. You can mark it incorrect without arguing with a single person.