Plenty of good ideas die from fear of looking cringe before they ever get the chance to fail.
STILLNESS
WHAT THIS MEANS
Fear of looking foolish operates earlier than fear of failing, which is exactly what makes it so effective. A real attempt produces a result you can learn from, while an idea dropped to avoid embarrassment never gets the chance to be wrong, so nothing is learned either way. Most of what gets lost is lost at that first flinch, before any effort was spent.
Take the idea you have been sitting on and do the smallest visible version of it this week. Accept in advance that it may look awkward. Being bad at something in public is a stage rather than a verdict.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
Which idea of yours died of embarrassment before it could fail?
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