Some of the most loved people never did anything famous. They just kept showing up for the same few people for decades.

STILLNESS

WHAT THIS MEANS

The people who get spoken about with the most warmth are rarely the ones with achievements attached. They turned up, for the same small group of people, for decades, and nothing about that is visible from outside or impressive on paper. Reliability over a long stretch is the rarest thing there is, and it only becomes obvious afterwards.

Pick two or three people and be the one who keeps turning up. Answer the phone, remember the date, go to the thing. It costs very little each time and it compounds for fifty years.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Who has shown up for you for years without recognition?

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