The friends you have at eighteen probably won’t all be around at thirty. Enjoy them like you know that.

Most friendships are tied to a time and a place, and when the place changes some of them quietly end. That is not a failure on anybody’s part. Knowing it ahead of time is not a reason to hold back, it is a reason to be fully in the ones you have while the conditions last.

Make a plan with your closest few this month rather than assuming the chances keep arriving. Keep the people who still reply when there is no reason to.