Your parents shaped where you started. At some point, the next move is yours.

Where you began is a fact you did not choose, and it explains a great deal about what comes easily to you and what does not. It still does not decide what happens next, because an explanation and a permission are different things. Holding both at once is the honest position: that it was not your fault, and that the next step is yours.

Pick one thing you have been putting down entirely to how you were raised, and ask what the smallest next move on it would be. Learn something nobody taught you.