Pride turns a two-minute “my bad” into a two-week standoff.
REFLECTION
REFLECTION
The cost of admitting something stays roughly constant while the cost of not admitting it grows. At the start it is a short awkward sentence, and every day of waiting adds a layer, because now there is the original thing plus the silence plus the fact that you clearly could have spoken earlier. Pride is excellent at hiding this arithmetic.
Say the two-minute version today, even if the standoff is already a week old. Do not explain the delay at length. Late and plain still ends it, and the relief is out of all proportion to the effort.
Which standoff could have ended with two words from you?
Free, with nothing to buy inside it.