A life can become more personal without becoming easier to summarize.

Summaries reward legible shapes: a title, a field, a clear line from one thing to the next. A life arranged for its own sake often refuses that, since the parts that matter most turn out to be a set of specific attachments, odd interests and people, which do not compress into an answer at a party. Getting harder to explain is frequently a sign of getting closer to what you actually want.

Notice whether you are choosing anything because it will sound coherent. Let the answer to what do you do become a little vaguer if the days underneath it get better.