Let people recover from an awkward moment without making it their new introduction.

GRATITUDE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Small stumbles are survivable until someone decides to keep them alive. Retelling the moment, even fondly, hands a person a label they did not choose and cannot easily put down. Most people recover from embarrassment quickly on their own, and what slows the recovery is an audience that keeps bringing it back.

If someone near you fumbled something recently, stop referring to it, including as a joke. Give them an ordinary conversation about something else entirely. Let the most recent thing anyone remembers about them be more recent than their worst minute.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Whose worst moment do you still bring up in company?

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