Some affection is shown by choosing a plan the other person can actually manage.

Grand plans can express how much someone matters, and they can also quietly ask a lot: travel, stamina, money, a whole day arranged around them. When the person is tired, unwell, stretched thin or short of money, the impressive plan becomes something to decline or endure. Choosing the smaller version is not settling for less, it is paying attention.

Think of one person you want to see and pick the easiest possible way to see them. Meet near them, keep it short, and let the ease of it be the gift.