Some decisions need a quiet day more than another hour of discussion.

STILLNESS

WHAT THIS MEANS

Talking is how most decisions get made, and past a point it stops adding anything. The arguments repeat, the group grows tired, and what you end up choosing has more to do with who spoke last than with what is true. Some things resolve only when you stop turning them over and let the answer surface.

If a choice has been discussed into the ground, stop and give it a day away. Take a walk, sleep on it, and notice what you find yourself assuming when nobody is asking you to justify anything.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which decision needs quiet from you rather than more advice?

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