The person who tells you what they need is giving the relationship a chance to respond well.

Stating a need is a risk taken on behalf of both of you. It would be safer to say nothing and manage alone, and plenty of relationships thin out that way without either person knowing why. A direct request is an act of trust, not a complaint.

When someone tells you what they need, receive it as good news even if the content is awkward. Thank them for saying it plainly and answer honestly about what you can do. And notice where you have been going without rather than asking, since the other person may be waiting for the same chance.