A purchase shared with another person needs agreement about its ordinary life after the excitement.

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

The buying is the exciting part and it lasts a fortnight. Everything after that is maintenance, storage, insurance, who uses it more, and what happens if one of you stops wanting it. Almost every argument about a shared thing is really about terms nobody set at the start, because setting them would have spoiled a pleasant afternoon.

Before going in on something together, spend ten minutes on the dull questions. Who keeps it, who pays for repairs, what happens if one of you wants out. It is a much easier conversation before the money changes hands than afterwards, and it protects the thing you were both looking forward to.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

What did you buy together without discussing who maintains it?

MORE IN CHOICE & CONSEQUENCE

Free, with nothing to buy inside it.