A doorway can make a visitor decide how much of themselves to bring inside.

GRATITUDE

WHAT THIS MEANS

The first few seconds of arriving set the terms. A tidy hush, a raised eyebrow at wet shoes, or a silence about where to put a coat all tell a guest how much room there is for them, and people adjust accordingly, often without noticing they have. What follows can be pleasant and still be smaller than it might have been.

Think about what your own entrance communicates, and make one thing explicit: where to leave things, that noise is fine, that they can sit anywhere. Said at the door, it changes the whole visit more than anything you offer later.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Whose home lets you arrive as yourself without adjusting first?

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