Be charitable and indulgent to every one but yourself.
— Joseph Joubert
RESILIENCE
— Joseph Joubert
RESILIENCE
Two standards are being recommended: a generous one for everybody else and a demanding one for you. The asymmetry is deliberate, because the only conduct you actually control is your own, and softness there tends to spread. The danger is obvious, since a demanding standard can curdle into a permanent prosecution of yourself. Held well, it means expecting more of your effort and less of your excuses, not thinking worse of yourself as a person.
Notice where you are accepting a reason from yourself that you would gently question in a friend. Meet that one properly this week, and keep the generosity flowing outward where it belongs.
What do you excuse in yourself but never in others?
Free, with nothing to buy inside it.