Adulthood is realizing nobody has it figured out, then deciding to figure out your part anyway.

The discovery that the adults are improvising can land two ways. It can feel like permission to stop trying, since apparently nobody knows. Or it can shrink the task to something you can hold: not solving life, just handling your corner of it competently. The second reading is the one that gets you anywhere.

Choose one area where you have been waiting for a proper authority to tell you the answer. Learn enough about it to make a decent decision yourself this month. Accept that decent is the standard everyone is actually working at.