If being disliked by a few people terrifies you, you’ll end up leading nobody.

Any real decision disappoints somebody, which means needing universal approval is the same as being unable to decide. The group notices quickly and stops bringing you anything that requires a call. Disliking the feeling is normal and it does not have to go away. Deciding anyway while it is present is the whole skill.

Make one call this week that you know one person will not like, and make it without over-explaining. Tell them directly rather than letting them find out. The discomfort passes faster than you expect and the standing you get does not.