1,491 thoughts

Leadership & Influence

Handing work over so people stop needing you, and who feels safe speaking up.

theme leadership 1,491

Twelve of the 1,491, with the question each one ends on. Open one to read the explanation that sits between them.

“The space beneath a table can decide who gets to join the conversation above it.”

Who cannot physically join the table you set up?

“A team that’s scared of the leader hides problems. A team that trusts the leader brings them early.”

Do people bring you bad news early or hide it?

“Standards are easy on a good day. You find out if you have any at practice number forty when everyone’s tired.”

How do you behave at the fortieth practice of the season?

“Be for some eleven-year-old the older kid you desperately needed when you were eleven.”

Who did you need at eleven that nobody provided?

“Saying sorry to a ten-year-old teaches them more than any lecture could.”

Which child in your life is owed a real apology?

“Teaching your little sister to tie her shoes for the ninth time is leadership training. Nobody tells you that.”

Who at home are you patiently teaching right now?

“Saying “I’ll go first” in a room full of people who don’t want to is a small form of leadership.”

When could you volunteer while the room stares at the floor?

“Every team needs someone willing to say “this isn’t working” before it becomes obvious to everyone.”

What is failing around you that nobody has named out loud?

“A ship’s captain is responsible for the ship even while asleep. Being in charge doesn’t clock out.”

What stays your responsibility even on your days off?

“The real captain isn’t the loudest player. It’s the one still talking to the bench while they’re losing.”

Who keeps talking to your team when things go badly?

“Do not make someone earn the same trust again every time a new task begins.”

Who has proven themselves to you and still gets watched closely?

“A useful meeting ends before attention has become too tired to recognize a good decision.”

When does attention run out in the meetings you sit through?