Unsolicited advice is free for a reason.

STILLNESS

WHAT THIS MEANS

Advice nobody asked for is usually about the person giving it. It comes out of their fears, their regrets, the choice they made or wish they had made, and it is aimed at a version of your situation they imagined rather than the one you are standing in. That does not make it worthless, but it does make it cheap.

When the next round arrives, listen first for what it says about them, then decide what it means for you. Find the people who have actually done the thing you are attempting. Their advice is worth going out of your way to collect.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Who hands you guidance you never asked them for?

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