Letting someone help carry the boxes is its own kind of strength. Doing everything alone isn’t the only proof.

GRATITUDE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Refusing help is often mistaken for strength when it is closer to a habit of not risking it. Accepting it requires admitting you have a limit and trusting somebody with the knowledge, which is harder than carrying the thing alone and considerably more useful. Independence is one form of capability, not the whole of it.

Ask for something small this week that you could technically manage by yourself. Notice that the person is usually glad to be asked. The relationships that go deep are the ones where help has moved in both directions.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

What help have you refused to prove you could manage?

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