Find someone living the life you want in ten years and study their calendar, not their captions.

What people show is selected and what they do is not. A visible life is made of outcomes, and the thing that produced those outcomes is a set of ordinary repeated hours that photograph badly and never get posted. Admiring the result while ignoring the schedule leaves you with a target and no route.

Ask someone a decade ahead what an average Tuesday actually looks like, including the parts they find tedious. Compare it honestly with your own week. The gap between the two is the whole answer, and it is usually less glamorous and more doable than the captions suggested.