You’re not too much. You’ve been performing for a crowd that bought tickets to a different show.

Being told you are too much is usually information about the fit rather than about your size. The same qualities that overwhelm one group are exactly what another finds easy and welcome. Shrinking for a particular audience does work, and what it costs is most of what made you worth knowing.

Notice where you routinely turn yourself down, and whether it is one specific set of people. Try the full version somewhere new before concluding the problem is you. The right crowd does not ask for the edit, and finding them is a search rather than a repair.