Nobody has ever rushed a sunrise. It still shows up every single day.

Some arrivals are not responsive to your urgency, and no amount of wanting moves them forward by a minute. What that means in practice is that impatience costs you the wait and changes nothing about the arrival. The reliability is the point, since the thing you are waiting on is coming on a schedule that does not consult you.

Sort what you are waiting on into what your effort affects and what it does not. For the second list, spend the wait on something else entirely. Certainty about arrival is worth more than speed, and here you already have it.