Asking for help isn’t weakness. It’s you telling someone, “I trust you with the part I can’t carry.”

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Being able to ask is a form of confidence rather than a lack of one. What you are doing is handing someone a piece of your situation and betting they will treat it well, which is a compliment they can feel. It also quietly gives them permission to ask you later. Silence protects your pride and costs you the help.

Choose one thing you have been struggling through alone and tell a single person about it this week. Be specific about what would actually help, since vague requests are hard to answer. Most people are glad to be asked.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

What part could you hand to someone who would help?

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