1,087 thoughts

Courage & Risk

Acting before the evidence is in, and being seen trying while you might still fail.

theme resilience 1,087

Twelve of the 1,087, with the question each one ends on. Open one to read the explanation that sits between them.

“A well-packed case leaves room for the unexpected without pretending it can predict everything.”

How much room do you leave for what you cannot foresee?

“Cruelty is a tyrant that’s always attended with fear.”

— Thomas Fuller

What fear was hiding underneath the last time you were harsh?

“Spectator seats are comfortable. They also never show up in the highlights.”

Where have you been watching when you wanted to be playing?

“Telling a friend they hurt you is a risk. Letting it rot quietly is a guarantee.”

What hurt are you letting quietly rot inside a friendship?

“Walk up and say your name. Every friendship ever started with someone going first.”

Who have you wanted to meet but never introduced yourself to?

“Raising your hand when you’re unsure is scary for three seconds and useful for the whole semester.”

Which question did you swallow in class this week?

“Asking for help is a skill like free throws. Awkward at first, automatic once you practice.”

What could you ask for help with today?

“Raising concerns about a project you’re excited about takes guts. It also saves the project.”

What worry about something you love have you kept quiet?

“The tryout you skip feels safe for a day. Then you watch the season from the stands and wonder.”

What did you skip and then spend a season regretting?

“Introducing two friends from different groups is a small risk. It can also be the start of a whole new circle.”

Who would you introduce to your other friend group?

“Fear makes the risk look bigger and the reward look smaller. Do the math on paper, not in your head at 2 a.m.”

Which worry would shrink if you wrote the numbers down?

“The first step into an unfamiliar room deserves a welcome from the part of you that wanted to go.”

What unfamiliar room would you enter if you were kinder to yourself?