“Oh, it was nothing” when it was three months of work isn’t humble. It’s hiding.

REFLECTION

WHAT THIS MEANS

Waving off real work is not modesty, whatever it sounds like from outside. It removes the thing from view, which conveniently removes it from judgment too, and that safety is usually the real motive. It also teaches people that what you do costs nothing, which becomes its own problem later when you need them to understand what you gave.

Practice one accurate sentence instead. It took three months and you are glad with how it came out. No inflation, no shrinking. Saying the true size of something out loud is uncomfortable the first few times and then it is not.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

What work of yours do you routinely make sound smaller?

MORE IN MINDSET & IDENTITY

Free, with nothing to buy inside it.