Your first pair of glasses won’t be your last. Neither will your first style, first opinion, or first plan.

Firsts are prototypes. Your first glasses, first haircut you chose, first strong opinion, first plan for your life: all of them were made with the information you had at the time, and all of them are supposed to be replaced. Treating them as permanent is what makes choosing feel enormous, because you think you are committing for twenty years when you are really committing for one.

So choose faster and hold it loosely. Pick the frames, state the opinion, make the plan. Keep a note of what you would change next time, because that note is the actual progress.