Big changes rarely feel big while they’re happening. Mostly they feel like paperwork.

Significant change arrives as logistics. Forms, a van, a deposit, telling people, finding out which bus you need now. The meaning of it tends to turn up months afterwards, when you notice your life looks nothing like it did, and at the time you were mostly tired and looking for a charger.

If you are in the middle of something large, expect the admin and stop waiting to feel it. Make the list, do the next item, sleep. The significance will come and find you later, probably on an ordinary afternoon.