Small groups follow whoever has energy and a plan. Bring both and you’ll be surprised who follows.

Most groups are not resisting a leader, they are waiting for one, because deciding is tiring and nobody wants to be the person who suggested the thing everyone hated. Bringing energy and a specific plan removes both problems at once. The bar is lower than it looks from outside.

Next time your group is drifting, say what you are going to do and when, then leave the door open. Do not take a vote on whether to have an idea. You will be surprised who comes along.