Take advice from lots of people. Make the final call with your own conscience.

Collecting opinions and handing over the decision are different acts, and the second one is where people get into trouble. Advice is useful precisely because it comes from outside your head, carrying things you had not considered. It is also given by people who will not live with the outcome, which is why the last step has to stay with you. Wide input, single decision.

For something you are weighing now, ask three people deliberately, including one who will disagree. Write down what you learned. Then decide on your own, and notice whether the answer sits well with you rather than whether it would please them.