Notice which questions you’re scared to Google. That’s the stuff you actually want to know.

A particular flinch arrives before certain searches, and it tends to sit directly on top of what you most need to know: what a symptom means, what a job actually pays, whether the thing you are feeling is normal. The fear is not that the answer is unavailable. It is that it might be real, and then you would have to hold it.

Pick one question you have been circling and look it up this week, in daylight, with time afterwards. Use a source worth trusting rather than a comment section. Knowing is usually lighter to carry than wondering.