In a really quiet room you’ll hear your own breathing. Weird at first. Calming once you stop fighting it.
STILLNESS
WHAT THIS MEANS
Your body is always making sound; you only hear it when the room stops competing. The first few seconds are uncomfortable because the quiet feels like something missing, and the instinct is to fill it. Stay a little longer and the same sound becomes something steady to follow. Nothing changed except that you stopped fighting it.
Try two minutes in the quietest room you can find with nothing playing. Notice the urge to reach for your phone and let it pass without obeying it. Follow your breathing in and out a few times, not to achieve anything, just to hear it.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
Does your own breathing unsettle you or steady you?
MORE IN SOLITUDE & SELF-KNOWLEDGE
- Picture yourself at eighty on a porch swing, looking back. Ask what that person would want you to stop worrying about.
- Notice the small lies you tell to smooth things over. They show you exactly where you’re afraid of disappointing people.
- You learn a lot about yourself by what you keep on your bedroom walls. Update them when they stop being true.
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