The jokes your family repeats every holiday are a kind of heirloom. Learn them all, even the bad ones.
STILLNESS
WHAT THIS MEANS
Repeated jokes are tiny pieces of shared history that only work inside your family. Each one carries the person who first said it, the year it happened and the fact that everyone was there, which is why it keeps getting told long after it stopped being funny. The retelling is the point, not the punchline.
Learn the stories behind the ones you only half know, including whose they originally were. Ask the oldest person in the room where that phrase came from. Then keep telling them, badly, to whoever comes next.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
Which family joke could you not explain to an outsider?
MORE IN TIME, MORTALITY & LEGACY
- One generation’s chore becomes the next generation’s tradition. Somebody hated making those pierogi by hand once.
- Some of the most loved people never did anything famous. They just kept showing up for the same few people for decades.
- Every awkward era gives you material. Future you is going to need some good stories.
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