Your future friends are probably in a club you haven’t joined yet.

The people you will be close to in three years are mostly not in your life now, and they are not going to be found by waiting. Friendship comes from repeated proximity around a shared thing, which means the main variable is how many rooms you are regularly in. A club is just a scheduled room with a reason to talk.

Pick one thing and go three times rather than once, because the first visit tells you nothing. It does not have to be something you are good at. Talk to whoever is next to you about the activity itself, which is the easiest conversation available.