A different question can make the same situation reveal a different answer.
REFLECTION
WHAT THIS MEANS
The question you ask determines the range of answers available. Ask why something always happens to you and you will get a list of grievances. Ask what would improve it and you will get options. Same situation, different equipment.
When you are stuck, look at the question you have been asking rather than at the answers. Change it deliberately, to something that assumes action is possible. The situation often reveals more than it did.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
What better question could you ask about your current problem?
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