The person who helped you choose should not need ownership of every later result.

Helping someone decide is a gift right up to the moment it becomes a claim. Once a helper needs the outcome to prove them right, every later report becomes a verdict on their advice, and the person living the result starts editing what they say. Good counsel ends when the choice is made. What happens afterward belongs to the one who has to live inside it.

If you helped someone choose recently, ask how it is going without steering the answer toward your part in it. And if someone helped you, notice whether you are still reporting to them out of habit rather than warmth.