Awkward laughter sometimes asks a group for permission to move on.

GRATITUDE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Laughter is not always about something being funny. After a remark lands badly or a silence stretches, someone laughs to test whether the room is willing to leave the moment behind. It is a small request, made without words, and the group answers by joining in or by staying quiet. Both answers matter, since the second usually means something still needs saying.

When you hear that kind of laugh this week, notice what it is asking for before you respond. If the moment truly is finished, join in and let it close. If it is not, a plain sentence helps more than a laugh does.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

When has your laugh been a request to change the subject?

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