Melancholy sees the worst of things,—things as they may be, and not as they are. It looks upon a beautiful face, and sees but a grinning skull.
— Christian Nestell Bovee
REFLECTION
— Christian Nestell Bovee
REFLECTION
A low mood invents no facts; it chooses which possibilities to treat as certain. It looks at a good thing and sees the version that has already ended. The distortion convinces precisely because nothing in it is impossible; every face does age, every good stretch does end. What gets lost is the difference between what may happen and what is happening now.
When your reading of a situation is uniformly bleak, treat the uniformity as a symptom rather than clear sight. Ask what a steadier week would make of the same facts. If the grey does not lift, let someone you trust know rather than sitting in it alone.
What looks bleak to you today that may not be?
Free, with nothing to buy inside it.