You messed up. That doesn’t cancel your judgment forever. It just updated it.

GRATITUDE

WHAT THIS MEANS

One bad call is information about one situation, not a verdict on every decision you will ever make. The pull afterward is to hand your judgment to somebody else for a while, since yours clearly cannot be trusted. But judgment is not a permit that gets revoked. It is a running average, and you just added to it.

Write down the one thing you actually learned, in a single sentence. When a similar choice shows up this week, make it yourself with that sentence in mind. Getting it right once is how the average moves back.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which mistake are you letting disqualify your judgment for good?

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