You messed up. That doesn’t cancel your judgment forever. It just updated it.
GRATITUDE
GRATITUDE
One bad call is information about one situation, not a verdict on every decision you will ever make. The pull afterward is to hand your judgment to somebody else for a while, since yours clearly cannot be trusted. But judgment is not a permit that gets revoked. It is a running average, and you just added to it.
Write down the one thing you actually learned, in a single sentence. When a similar choice shows up this week, make it yourself with that sentence in mind. Getting it right once is how the average moves back.
Which mistake are you letting disqualify your judgment for good?
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