You can outsource the advice. You can’t outsource the result.
REFLECTION
REFLECTION
Other people can tell you what to do, and none of them will be standing in your life when the consequences arrive. Good counsel is worth collecting, and it stays information rather than a decision. Handing the choice to someone else does not transfer the outcome, only the blame.
Gather what you need and then take a quiet hour to decide by yourself. Notice when you are asking more people in order to avoid choosing. Once you decide, own it fully, including the part that came from advice you accepted.
Whose advice are you following without owning the outcome?
Free, with nothing to buy inside it.