Complaining about the rain and thanking it for the plants are the same weather, two different people.

Conditions arrive without an opinion attached; the opinion gets added afterward, by you, usually out of habit rather than thought. Two people standing in the same afternoon can be having entirely different days, and neither one is wrong about the water. What differs is which part they are looking at and what they have decided it means.

Pick one thing you routinely complain about and spend a week describing it a second way before you comment. Not pretending to like it, just naming what it is also doing.