Mispronouncing words in a new language isn’t embarrassing. It’s the sound of someone actually trying.
RESILIENCE
WHAT THIS MEANS
Mistakes are the audible part of learning. Nobody acquires a language silently and correctly; the wrong stress and the mangled vowel are the sound of someone doing the actual work, while the careful silence of a person who will not risk it produces nothing. Native speakers hear effort and usually meet it warmly. The embarrassment is nearly always larger inside you than outside.
Say the word anyway and let someone correct you. Repeat their version twice before moving on. Aim at being understood rather than at sounding right, and the sounding right shows up later on its own.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
What are you not attempting because beginners sound clumsy?
MORE IN COURAGE & RISK
- Asking “what could I do better?” takes guts. Most people would rather guess forever than hear the answer.
- Merging onto the highway the first time is terrifying. Two weeks later you’re singing along to the radio doing it.
- You don’t need one giant leap. Twenty small brave moves this month get you just as far.
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