Figuring out who you are gets easier when you start asking who you can help.

Self-examination has a limit, and past it you are mostly circling. Identity tends to show itself in contact with something outside you, because what you notice, what you cannot walk past and what you turn out to be useful for say more than any amount of looking inward. Turning the question outward is not a distraction from the search. Often it is the only way an answer appears.

Find one person or one problem you can help with this month, at a scale you can actually manage. Notice what you reach for and what you enjoy.